i'm an open person about a lot things, but i've come to realize that BDSM is personal and should really only be told to those that need to know rather than to those who are interested.
Originally i told my best friends what i did and only a few because i knew if they were true they would still be my friends.
i then told my house because they're a very outgoing bunch and they understood; also it would be so much easier for them to know instead asking too many questions.
But then i told some people in my organization, the people i work with on various events and now i think they all know. Which most are ok with, but everyone still judges and i'm sure most of the Women don't want anything to do with me, which is unfortunate since They're a lot of amazing Women in the organization, hopefully they'll be ok with it later on.
At the same time, a good deal of people in my grade know because of a past roommate. I really hope for his sake that some day he grows up.
Guess what i've learned is only tell people about the kink life who need to know, it spreads to quickly and people are so focused on asking questions about it. Also people are such critics. Soon i'll be out of the school and in a new environment where i will be far more hesitant about who i tell information to.
So i encourage everyone to be wary of who you tell your BDSM too even if you're young and have progressive-minded peers.
As for BDSM activities since i last blogged, just some more fun at Dungeon Servitus with the Ladies, i haven't done video in a long time as i'm just way too busy at school making my own student videos at the moment.
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